A Conversation in Colombia
Some time ago, I visited a school in Colombia whose educational model differed from almost every school I had known: students were not grouped by age but by autonomy. As they demonstrated greater independence, they were given increasing responsibility for organising their own learning. They decided when to arrive, how to structure their day, and how quickly to progress. Teachers remained present, but gradually shifted from directing learning to accompanying it.
One student particularly caught my attention. He had reached one of the highest levels of autonomy. Watching him move confidently through the school, it was easy to imagine that he could continue learning almost entirely on his own.
So I asked him a simple question: “If you are already capable of learning independently, why do you still come to school?”
He smiled, almost as though the question itself had caught him slightly off guard. Then he answered without hesitation: “Because when I’m here, talking to other people, I learn things about who I am.”
Only much later did I realise that I had probably heard the most important answer of the day.
At first, his words puzzled me. Schools help us understand mathematics, literature, history, and science. They help us acquire knowledge and develop skills. But how could conversations with classmates teach someone who they are?
The more I reflected on his answer, the more I realised that it pointed towards something we rarely notice. Most of the time we do not look at our own way of thinking. We look through it. Like a pair of glasses worn every day, our assumptions quietly shape everything we see while remaining almost invisible themselves. They feel like reality because they are the only perspective from which we are looking. Perhaps this is why genuine conversations can be so unsettling. Someone else notices what we overlook. They find significance where we saw none. They question distinctions that had always seemed obvious to us. They expose assumptions we did not even know we were making.
The student had not come to school because he needed more information. He had come because other people were making his own way of seeing visible to himself. Once I understood his answer in those terms, I found myself thinking about Aristotle.
Why Aristotle Still Matters
The student’s answer stayed with me for a long time. The more I reflected on it, the less it seemed like an isolated remark and the more it reminded me of something I had first encountered many years earlier in Aristotle. At first, the connection may seem unexpected. Yet Aristotle was trying to understand precisely the same question: how do human beings come to know themselves? His answer was striking. Human beings, he argued, do not flourish in isolation. We become ourselves fully only through life shared with others. This is the deeper meaning of his famous description of the human being as a political animal. It is not simply that we live in societies. It is that some of our most important human capacities can only mature within them.
The idea becomes even clearer in his account of friendship. Aristotle describes a friend as another self. At first, the phrase sounds puzzling. Another person is not another version of us. Quite the opposite. They are someone whose life, experiences and assumptions have developed independently of our own. Precisely because of that independence, they allow us to discover aspects of ourselves that would otherwise remain hidden.
Listening to that student, I slowly realised that he had understood this instinctively. When he said that conversations with his classmates helped him discover who he was, he was not describing the exchange of information. He was describing the experience of seeing his own way of understanding become visible through contact with someone else’s.
Left entirely to ourselves, our thinking often remains internally coherent. We refine our ideas, organise them more carefully and become increasingly consistent. But consistency is not the same as self-knowledge. We rarely notice the assumptions that organise our thinking while nothing genuinely independent interrupts them.
Another person changes that. They ask questions that would never have occurred to us. They care about things that seem irrelevant to us and sometimes find our own certainties surprisingly difficult to understand. In doing so, they make visible the invisible framework through which we have been interpreting the world. For Aristotle, this was not an accidental benefit of friendship. It was one of the reasons friendship mattered in the first place.
The more I thought about that conversation in Colombia, the more convinced I became that the student had expressed exactly the same insight in ordinary language. He had gone to school not because he lacked autonomy, but because other people were helping him become visible to himself.
What Artificial Intelligence Changes
Reflecting on that conversation in Colombia gradually led me to another question. If so much of education depends on encounters with people whose perspectives have developed independently of our own, what happens when a student can increasingly learn without needing those encounters?
This, I believe, is the educational question raised by artificial intelligence. It is not primarily a question about information, because AI already provides extraordinary access to information. Nor is it simply a question about problem-solving, since many intellectual tasks can now be completed more efficiently with its assistance. The deeper question concerns the structure of learning itself.
For the first time, students can make substantial intellectual progress while spending far less time encountering minds that were not chosen by them, that do not naturally adapt to them and that have not been mediated through systems designed around their own purposes. That possibility represents a profound educational shift. It changes not only how students learn, but also the conditions under which they encounter other ways of understanding the world.
Artificial intelligence is built to help. It answers our questions, adjusts its explanations, remembers our preferences and increasingly adapts its responses to the way we think. This is one of its greatest strengths. It makes learning more accessible, more efficient and, in many cases, more enjoyable. Yet every strength reshapes the educational environment in which it operates.
A classmate does not reorganise their thinking around ours. A teacher may try to understand us, but their perspective ultimately remains their own. A difficult book does not rewrite itself because we misunderstand it. History does not unfold in order to make our learning easier. Reality itself has no obligation to conform to the categories through which we happen to interpret it.
Other people remain, gloriously, independent of our purposes, and that independence is not an obstacle education has traditionally had to overcome. It is one of the reasons education has always worked as it does.
When another person’s understanding refuses to fit comfortably inside our own, we are confronted with something more demanding than disagreement. We are forced to consider the possibility that it is not merely our conclusions that require revision, but the assumptions from which those conclusions emerged. We begin to recognise that our way of framing the situation may itself be incomplete.
Artificial intelligence can certainly challenge us. It can present counterarguments, introduce unfamiliar ideas and even sustain remarkably sophisticated forms of dialogue. None of this should be underestimated. Even so, those challenges arise within an environment whose fundamental orientation is user responsiveness. Its intelligence is exercised in the service of our questions.
Human encounter is different. When another student disagrees with us, they are not performing disagreement as an educational strategy. They disagree because they genuinely see the matter differently. When reality frustrates our expectations, it is not trying to improve our understanding. Its resistance exists independently of our purposes.
That distinction may appear subtle, yet it has profound educational consequences. The most formative encounters are often those that no one arranged. They surprise us precisely because they emerge from realities that have their own integrity, their own history and their own logic. They do not exist to complete our thinking. They exist independently of it.
For that reason, they often reveal the limits of our understanding more effectively than any challenge deliberately designed to improve it.
Why Students Still Need One Another
If students can increasingly learn, produce, and solve problems alone, then the purpose of schools deserves reconsideration. Schools have never existed simply because information was difficult to obtain. Libraries have always contained more knowledge than any individual could master, and today, artificial intelligence places much of that knowledge within immediate reach. If education had only ever been about access to information, its central institutions would already have lost much of their purpose. Their deeper purpose has always been different.
Schools bring people together who would not naturally have chosen one another. They place students in sustained contact with classmates whose experiences, priorities and ways of understanding the world have developed independently of their own. Living alongside those differences is not merely a social benefit that accompanies learning. It is one of the conditions through which learning becomes formative.
It is in those encounters that students gradually discover not only how to answer questions, but also how to recognise which questions deserve to be asked in the first place. They begin to realise that every perspective, including their own, is necessarily partial, and that understanding often starts with the unsettling discovery that someone else has seen something they themselves could not.
This is why the arrival of artificial intelligence does not diminish the importance of schools. If anything, it makes their distinctive human purpose more visible. The more capable AI becomes of supporting individual learning, the more valuable schools become as places where students regularly encounter minds that do not simply respond to them.
Their unique contribution will lie less in delivering knowledge than in creating opportunities for students to live with perspectives that surprise them, contradict them and occasionally force them to rethink not only their answers, but the assumptions from which those answers emerged.
I often find myself thinking again about that student in Colombia. Only afterwards did I realise that he had answered a question I had not even known how to ask. He did not come to school because he needed more information. He came because, in the company of others, he was slowly discovering the person who was doing the learning.
Artificial intelligence may become an extraordinary intellectual companion. It cannot become another self.
